📜 Parashat Devarim
📜 Parashat Devarim · Sefer Devarim · 5785
Tisha B'Av and the Tears That Turned to Hope
📜 Parashat Devarim
A shiur · Éditions Gueoula
Tisha B'Av and the Tears That Turned to Hope
A shiur · Éditions Gueoula · 📜 Parashat Devarim · Sefer Devarim · 5785

😭 From Futile Tears to Tears of Hope This lesson reveals the profound connection between Parashat Devarim and Tisha B'Av, the Jewish people's national day of mourning. Moses begins his farewell address with the sin of the Spies—the sin that caused our eternal tears. But the story of the last 16,500 survivors teaches us the most important lesson of all: even when facing a seemingly irreversible divine decree, a Jew must never despair . ✨ A Revelation from the Midrash An extraordinary teaching: "You wept for no reason, and I will therefore establish for you a weeping for all generations" —but the end of the story transforms these tears into eternal joy!

In this shiur : Devarim & Tisha B'Av - An Eternal Bond · The 37-Day Discourse - A Leader's Testament · The Sin of the Spies - The Source of Our Tears · The Five Tragedies of Tisha B'Av - Our Painful History · The Nightly Ritual - 38 Years of Graves · The Last 16,500 - The Mystery of Salvation · The Divine Mystery - How Was the Decree Annulled? · Never Despair - The Eternal Lesson · King David's Lesson - Giving Thanks for Divine Anger · Conclusion - Turning Tisha B'Av into a Holiday

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1 📅 Devarim & Tisha B'Av - An Eternal Bond

📖 The Divine Arrangement

🗓️ Perfect Timing

Our Sages (Chazal) arranged it so that we always read the book of Devarim before Tisha B'Av.

Shabbat Devarim: Always falls before Tisha B'Av
At the end of Shabbat: The fast of Tisha B'Av begins
Spiritual Connection: "Eleh HaDevarim" serves as a prelude to our lamentations
Emotional Preparation: Moses prepares us for mourning through remembrance

A Divine Message: Before we weep for our losses, we must understand their origins and their lessons.

🔗 The Intimate Connection Revealed

📜 "ELEH HADEVARIM"
אֵלֶּה הַדְּבָרִים אֲשֶׁר דִּבֶּר מֹשֶׁה

"These are the words that Moses spoke..."

Why begin with "These are the words"?

• These are the words that prepare us for Tisha B'Av
• These are the words of our painful history
• These are the words that transform mourning into learning
• These are the words that give meaning to our tears

Moses teaches us that our tragedies have a precise origin—and therefore, a meaning to be discovered!

2 ⏰ The 37-Day Discourse - A Leader's Testament

📊 The Precise Chronology

🗓️ The Exact Dates Revealed
וַיְהִי בְּאַרְבָּעִים שָׁנָה בְּעַשְׁתֵּי עָשָׂר חֹדֶשׁ

"It was in the fortieth year, in the eleventh month..."

A Precise Calculation:

Start
1st of Shevat
(11th month)
Opening of Devarim
End
7th of Adar
Death of Moses
"V'Zot HaBerachah"
Duration
Exactly 37 days
The entire book
From "Eleh HaDevarim" to the end

A Unique Fact: This is the only book in the Torah delivered all at once, in a defined period, as a complete spiritual testament.

🎯 Why Begin with the Sin of the Spies?

🤔 Moses's Strategic Choice

Chronological Order vs. Pedagogical Order:

Chronologically: He should have spoken of the sin of the Golden Calf first
Pedagogically: He begins with the sin of the Spies
The Reason: It is a farewell speech before entering the Land of Israel
The Message: "Do not repeat the same mistake!"

Perfect Logic: Woe to one who still makes the same mistake and does not desire the Land of Israel, as King David says in the Psalms.

Moses prioritizes the most urgent lesson for the present moment!

3 👁️ The Sin of the Spies - The Source of Our Tears

🗺️ The Mission and Its Failure

👥 What Really Happened?

The Fateful Sequence:

40 days and 40 nights: Scouting the Promised Land
Return to the camp: The Spies' report
Moses asks: "What is the situation?"
An ambiguous answer: "The land is very, very good, BUT..."

כִּי טוֹבָה הָאָרֶץ מְאֹד מְאֹד... אֶפֶס כִּי עַז הָעָם

"For the land is very, very good, but we cannot go up"

The poison in the "but": They nullify their praise with their defeatist attitude!

😭 The People's Fateful Reaction

🌙 The Night of Tisha B'Av
וַיִּבְכּוּ הָעָם בַּלַּיְלָה הַהוּא

"And the people wept that night"

That night was the night of Tisha B'Av!

The Immediate Divine Response:

"You wept for no reason, and I will therefore establish for you a weeping for all generations."

An Immediate Divine Decree:

• The First Temple was destroyed on Tisha B'Av
• The Second Temple was destroyed on Tisha B'Av
• All our national tragedies are concentrated on this day
• Turning a night of weakness into an eternal day of mourning

A night of futile tears becomes the source of eternal tears!

4 💔 The Five Tragedies of Tisha B'Av - Our Painful History

📋 The National Disasters

💀 Five Terrible Events

Five terrible events befell the people of Israel on Tisha B'Av:

1. Sin of the Spies
Night of Tisha B'Av
Decree of wandering
40 years in the desert
2. First Temple
586 BCE
Destroyed by Babylon
70-year exile
3. Second Temple
70 CE
Destroyed by Rome
The current exile
4. Beitar
135 CE
Massacre of Bar Kokhba revolt
Hundreds of thousands killed
5. Aelia Capitolina
After Beitar
Jerusalem was plowed over
A new Roman city

🔢 The Mystical Calculation of Our Era

📊 How Many Years Have Passed?

A precise calculation for our time:

Current Year: 2025
Destruction of Second Temple: 68 CE
Calculation: 2025 - 68 = 1957 years

A Kabbalistic Discovery:

חיים = 68

The word "Chaim" (Life) has a Gematria (numerical value) of 68

A Message of Hope: "Like the number of 'Life'"—we know how to turn every evil into something good!

Even in the calculation of our suffering, we find a message of life!

5 🌙 The Nightly Ritual - 38 Years of Graves

⚰️ The Macabre Routine

💀 Every Night of Tisha B'Av

Our Sages reveal to us the terrifying ritual of the 38 years in the desert:

The Annual Procedure:

600,000 men aged 20 and over dig graves
Farewell to families: "We are saying goodbye"
Farewell meal: Lentils and an egg (foods of mourning)
A heart-wrenching goodbye: "I do not know if I will wake up alive tomorrow morning"
A night in the graves: Awaiting the promised death

In the morning:

About 16,500 people do not wake up
The survivors bury their brethren
Life continues for another year
The next year: Same ritual, same numbers

600,000 ÷ 38 years = about 16,500 deaths per year, every Tisha B'Av!

📊 The Mathematics of the Decree

🧮 A Precise Calculation of Fate

The inevitable logic of the divine decree:

Total to Die
600,000 men
(The generation upon whom the decree was passed)
They would not see the Land
Duration of Decree
38 years
(40 years - 2 already passed)
Until entry into the Land
Annual Quota
600,000 ÷ 38
≈ 15,789 per year
Rounded to ~16,500

Every Tisha B'Av, the decree is carried out with divine mathematical precision!

6 👥 The Last 16,500 - The Mystery of Salvation

🎯 The Final, Fateful Night

🌙 The 38th and Final Night

According to the calculation, what was supposed to happen?

Inevitable Logic:

Remaining: About 16,500 people (the last ones)
The Expectation: Everyone is supposed to die this night
The Certainty: "We will surely die"
Final Farewell: "We will not rise again"

They lie down in their graves with the absolute certainty that they will never awaken!

🌅 The Inexplicable Miracle

✨ They Woke Up Alive!

On the morning of the 10th of Av:

התעוררו כולם חיים

"They all awoke alive!"

Their Astonished Reaction:

Disbelief: "How is it possible that we did not die?"
Self-check: "They pinch themselves"
Bewilderment: "We were supposed to die!"
Remembering the decree: "The Holy One, Blessed be He, swore"

16,500 people stand before a miracle they cannot comprehend!

🌙 Doubting the Calendar

📅 "Did We Miscalculate?"

Their first hypothesis:

Questioning the Calendar:

"Perhaps we did not sanctify the new moon correctly"
"We made a mistake in the calculation"
"Maybe today is not Tisha B'Av"

The Verification Test:

The next night: They return to the graves
The next morning: Still alive!
Repeating the action: On the 10th, 11th, 12th... until the 15th

They test their theory day after day, hoping to understand!

🌕 The Full Moon of Tu B'Av

🎉 The Final Revelation
ראו את הלבנה במלואה בט"ו

"They saw the full moon on the 15th of Av"

The logic behind their joy:

Full Moon: 15 days after the new moon
Absolute Certainty: Tisha B'Av had passed 6 days ago
Clear Conclusion: "The decree is annulled!"
Spontaneous Celebration: "We are saved!"

The Birth of Tu B'Av:

This is why we celebrate Tu B'Av! A great celebration of liberation from the death decree of the desert generation.

It is the day of love between us and the Holy One, Blessed be He—not Valentine's Day!

7 ❓ The Divine Mystery - How Was the Decree Annulled?

🤔 The Fundamental Question

⚖️ How Is This Possible?

The Apparent Paradox:

On one hand:

• A divine decree that the entire generation would die
• An oath from the Holy One, Blessed be He
• Uncompromising divine justice
• 38 years of precise execution of the decree

On the other hand:

• 16,500 people miraculously survive
• They were partners in the sin of the Spies
• The decree applied to them
• They eventually enter the Land of Israel

How can a heavenly decree be annulled?

💀 First Answer: The Death of Aaron

⚰️ "The Death of the Righteous Atones"

A Revealing Chronology:

וַיָּמָת אַהֲרֹן בְּרֹאשׁ הַחֹדֶשׁ, בַּחֹדֶשׁ הַחֲמִישִׁי

"And Aaron died on the first day of the fifth month"

A Precise Calculation:

Aaron dies: 1st of Av (Rosh Chodesh Av)
The final Tisha B'Av: 8 days later
Atonement: The death of Aaron atones for all sins

A Talmudic Principle: "The death of a righteous person atones"

Application: Because Aaron the High Priest died on the 1st of Av, all the sins of the people of Israel were atoned for, including the annulment of the decree against the desert generation.

The merit of Aaron saves the last 16,500!

💪 Second Answer: The Power of Repentance (Teshuvah)

🔥 The Deep Lesson of Life

Analyzing the behavior of the 16,500:

The previous year (32,000 remaining):

Statistics: 50% chance of survival
Mentality: "I hope it's not me"
Personal Hope: It's possible to be saved

The final year (16,500 remaining):

Statistics: 0% chance of survival
Certainty: "We are 100% going to die"
A Crucial Choice: Fatalism or repentance?

They chose complete repentance in the face of certain death!

8 💪 Never Despair - The Eternal Lesson

🙏 The Heroic Response of the 16,500

💫 "We Will Not Despair"

Their extraordinary declaration of faith:

"We didn't know what we are learning now, that the death of Aaron atones. We only knew that there is a decree from the Holy One, Blessed be He, that cannot be canceled. You must die."

But they declared:

"You tell me I am about to die, but a person should never despair of mercy, even if a sharp sword is resting on his neck."

Their plan of repentance:

Acknowledgment: "Even though a death sentence has been decreed upon us"
Determination: "We are not giving up"
Action: "We want to do Teshuvah (repent)"
Hope: "To turn over a new leaf"

This power of repentance in the face of certain death is what allowed them to endure!

💎 The Universal Principle

❤️ "You Have Forsaken Me, But I Will Not Forsake You"

The eternal lesson:

A possible situation:

A Jew can reach a state where it seems, he thinks or feels, that the Holy One, Blessed be He, has abandoned him.

The correct response:

"You have abandoned me, you have given up on me, but I am not giving up on You. I am not giving up on You, even if, Holy One, Blessed be He, You have just told me that You have decreed upon me a decree that this is it, the story is over."

Unwavering Faith:

"You've given up on me, right? Tomorrow I must die. I am not giving up on You, Holy One, Blessed be He, and I trust that whatever happens, it will still be possible to turn the decree from black to white and bring redemption."

These 16,500 people, in fact, give us strength for all generations!

9 👑 King David's Lesson - Giving Thanks for Divine Anger

🎵 The Mysterious Psalm

🙏 "I THANK YOU, FOR YOU WERE ANGRY WITH ME"
אוֹדְךָ ה' כִּי אָנַפְתָּ בִּי

"I thank You, Hashem, for You were angry with me"

The troubling question:

How can King David say such a thing? "Thank you for being angry with me"?

Apparent logic:

It would be more correct to say: "Thank you for loving me"!

What is the hidden wisdom in this paradoxical gratitude?

👨‍👧 The Parable of the Father and Son

✋ "At Least I Felt Your Hand"

The revealing explanation:

Scenario 1 - An angry father:

• A father, angry at his son, gives him a slap
• The child's reaction: "Thank you, Father"
• Why? "At least I felt your hand"

Scenario 2 - An indifferent father:

• The father says: "I have given up on you"
• "I don't even want to discipline you anymore"
• "I am not educating you anymore, I'm leaving, go to hell"

Conclusion:

That is the worst thing that can happen! But when the father slaps the child—even if it hurts—at least he touched me, I felt my father.

Divine anger proves that we are still important to Him!

💝 A Message of Love

❤️ "I Still Matter to You"

King David's revelation:

"I know what this means: that I am still important to You and that You want what is good for me. So if You say such a thing, who am I not to want to be good?"

The Secret of Redemption:

Recognition: The Holy One, Blessed be He, truly never abandons us
Understanding: He is only trying to guide us all the time
Perspective: These are blows of love
Response: We want to reconnect with Him

This is the secret that can bring us redemption, and this is the hope we never lose!

10 🌟 Conclusion - Turning Tisha B'Av into a Holiday

🏗️ The Vision of the Third Temple

🕊️ The Eternal Hope

The Promise of Transformation:

May the Third Temple be rebuilt! Why?

Because the Holy One, Blessed be He, truly never abandons us; He is only trying to guide us all the time.

If we understand that these are blows of love:

Then, with G-d's help, we will want to reconnect with Him.

Just as those who merited the great joy of Tu B'Av, may we merit that Tisha B'Av will become a festival!

🎉 The Future Transformation

📅 The Calendar of Redemption

A Prophetic Vision:

9th of Av
Will become the
First Day of Festival
Start of the celebration
10th to 14th of Av
Will become
Chol HaMoed
Intermediate days
15th of Av
Will remain the
Last Day of Festival
As it is today

Parallel to Passover:

From the 1st to the 15th, we have holidays. So too we will have from the 9th to the 15th!

Another Parallel:

From Yom Kippur to Sukkot, thank G-d, are festival days that we will merit speedily in our days, Amen.

This very year, may Tisha B'Av be the first holiday, with G-d's help!

📚 The Final Lesson

🎓 The Wisdom of the Torah

Concluding quote from the manuscript:

"Be strong and blessed! Rabbi Chanina ben Akashia says: 'The Holy One, Blessed be He, wished to grant merit to Israel; therefore, He gave them Torah and Mitzvot in abundance.'"
רָצָה הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא לְזַכּוֹת אֶת יִשְׂרָאֵל, לְפִיכָךְ הִרְבָּה לָהֶם תּוֹרָה וּמִצְוֹת

"As it is said, 'Hashem desired for the sake of His righteousness; He will make the Torah great and glorious.'"

A Universal Message:

• Our trials enrich us spiritually
• Our tears become a source of wisdom
• Our painful history nourishes our hope
• The Torah grows through our questions

The 16,500 people who did not despair teach us to turn our defeats into victories!

🙏 Modern Application

🌍 For Our Times

The lessons from Parashat Devarim and Tisha B'Av resonate even today:

When facing difficulties: Never despair of heavenly mercy
In times of trial: See the "blows of love" that guide us
In the face of failure: Seek the lesson that helps us grow
In times of doubt: Remember that we are important to G-d
In collective suffering: Turn tears into hope

Even when it seems G-d has abandoned us, we never give up on Him!

🕯️ A Final Prayer for Tisha B'Av

May the merit of this lesson on the 16,500 righteous souls who never despaired help us:

To transform our futile tears into constructive tears
To see in our trials signs of divine love
To never lose hope, even in the face of seemingly irreversible decrees
To understand that our collective suffering has meaning
To prepare for the transformation of Tisha B'Av into a day of celebration

"With G-d's help, may Tisha B'Av become a festival speedily in our days, Amen"

May our tears turn into everlasting joy!
May the Third Temple be rebuilt speedily!

🎯 Test yourself

Five questions. Click an answer.

1
Why is Parashat Devarim always read before Tisha B'Av ?
Devarim opens Moshe's words of rebuke; the sin of the spies (who returned on Tisha B'Av) is the root of the generations' weeping.
2
What does Moshe reproach the people for through place-names ?
He alludes to the contempt for a land of delight — the rejection of God's gift.
3
Why does Moshe say "because of you" I will not enter the Land ?
The loss of Miriam's well led to the complaints, then the striking of the rock: Moshe's fate is bound to the people's.
4
What did the captive Levites do in Babylon ?
"How shall we sing the Lord's song in a foreign land?" — an act of self-sacrifice.
5
What do the letters of the name "Yerushalayim" hint at ?
Yerushalayim = Yira + Shalem: the completeness that will come when the world recognises God's kingship.

Result

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Sunday
Read Parashat Devarim and spot the rebuke by allusion.
Monday
Study the sin of the spies — the root of destruction and weeping.
Tuesday
Meditate on "because of you": the people's shared responsibility.
Wednesday
Psalm 137 — "By the rivers of Babylon": feel the longing for Zion.
Thursday
The Levites' bravery — an act of sacrifice for holiness.
Friday
"Yerushalayim" = Yira + Shalem: do one act of ahavat hinam.
Shabbat
Shabbat Hazon: prepare your heart for consolation and redemption.
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