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Devarim — Eikha: How Can I Bear It Alone? · Shabbat Chazon
Parashat Devarim · Shabbat Chazon · 5786 · Shiur 1
Eikha — How Can I Bear It Alone?
Three prophets, one word · From "Ayeka" to "Eikha"
A shiur by M. Yéhouda Himi
🕯️ In memory of Rav Ron Chaya zt”lThis shiur is also dedicated to the memory of Rav Ron Chaya zt”l, who devoted his life to spreading Torah, awakening return, and strengthening a true peace — a peace rooted in holiness, responsibility, and truth.May the merit of the tzaddik protect us and all Israel. May his soul be bound in the bond of life. Amen.
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M. Yéhouda Himi · Parashat Devarim · Shabbat Chazon · Shiur 1

Shabbat Chazon. Three prophets prophesied with the word Eikha: Moshe — "How can I bear it alone," Yeshayahu — "How has she become a harlot," and Yirmiyahu — "How does she sit solitary." The matron was seen in her tranquility, in her folly, and in her degradation.

Rashi on "your trouble, your burden and your strife" — three faults: they were litigious, skeptics who suspected Moshe, and grumblers.

The chiddush: "alone" — until now there was Aharon. Aharon died on Rosh Chodesh Av; he was the one who loved peace and pursued peace. Now Moshe asks: how can I make peace alone? The answer — "Bring for yourselves wise men."

From "Ayeka" (God's question to Adam) to "Eikha" — the very same letters. When a person loses his place and his light — the churban follows. The remedy: ahavat chinam, love without cause.

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1 The Context — Sefer Devarim and Shabbat Chazon

We are inside the Three Weeks, approaching Parashat Devarim and Shabbat Chazon — named for the haftara "The vision of Yeshayahu son of Amotz," whose every theme touches the churban.

These are the words that Moshe spoke to all Israel across the Jordan Devarim 1:1

Moshe delivers his farewell address from Rosh Chodesh Shevat until the 7th of Adar — 36 days. A hint: "Eleh" ("these") equals 36 in gematria. Rebukes, a review of the Torah, and guidance for entering the Land — all according to the word of the Holy One.

2 Three Who Prophesied With the Word Eikha

Midrash Eikha: "Three prophesied with the word Eikha — Moshe, Yeshayahu and Yirmiyahu."

Moshe: How can I bear it alone · Yeshayahu: How has she become a harlot · Yirmiyahu: How does she sit solitary Midrash Eikha 1
A parable of a matron with three attendants: one saw her in her tranquility — that is Moshe, when Israel stood at the threshold of the Land; one saw her in her folly — that is Yeshayahu, who witnessed idolatry and bloodshed; and one saw her in her degradation — that is Yirmiyahu, who saw her dragged into exile: the churban itself.
3 Moshe's Eikha — Rashi's Explanation
How can I bear alone your trouble, your burden and your strife Devarim 1:12

"Your trouble" — they were litigious: the one who lost a case would not accept it — "I have more witnesses, more proofs, I demand another hearing" — unwilling to yield.

"Your burden" — they were skeptics: if they saw Moshe leave his tent early, they said "what did the son of Amram see — surely he is at ease in his home"; if he was late — "he sits and plots schemes against you." They always suspected him.

"Your strife" — they were grumblers: constant claims, anger and complaints.

But if this is Rashi's meaning — what links this Eikha (a rebuke about the wilderness) to the Eikha of the churban? And more: this is not the only "Eikha" in Sefer Devarim.
4 The Chiddush — "Alone": Aharon Is No More

"Alone" implies that until now I was not alone. With whom? With Aharon. Moshe is speaking on Rosh Chodesh Av — and Aharon died on Rosh Chodesh Av (we read this in Parashat Massei, the previous portion).

⭐ Aharon — who loved peace and pursued peace, loved people and drew them near to Torah. He was the one who calmed things: the one who lost a case, the one who suspected Moshe. Now there is no Aharon — how can I make peace in the camp alone? This is Moshe's question.
Bring for yourselves wise, understanding and knowledgeable men from your tribes, and I will set them as your heads Devarim 1:13

The answer: appoint men who will take on the trait that Aharon and I possessed — and make peace in the camp in our place.

5 "Had You Merited" — The Link to the Churban
Midrash: "Had you merited, you would read 'How can I bear it alone'; now that you did not merit, you read 'How does she sit solitary.'"

Had they made peace and grasped the rebuke — they would not have spiraled into churban. The ruin of "How does she sit solitary" begins from the absence of peace, from baseless hatred. This is why, precisely during Bein HaMetzarim, the Torah revealed Aharon's passing in Parashat Massei — to remind us that the key to redemption is peace.

6 From "Ayeka" to "Eikha"

The very same letters! "Ayeka" — the Holy One's question to Adam. Did He not know where Adam was? Rather, not "where are you" geographically — "where is your light? where is your wholeness?"

⭐ When a person distances himself from his divine light and seeks to be something else — quarrels arise between one man and another, and from there to immorality, idolatry and bloodshed — and finally to churban. The remedy: to know "Ayeka" — to reconnect to your true place and your true light.

This is the key during Bein HaMetzarim: the Temple was destroyed through baseless hatred — so let us increase ahavat chinam, love without cause, between one another and toward the Holy One, and merit the complete redemption, soon. Amen.

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Five questions. Click on an answer.

1
Why is this Shabbat called "Shabbat Chazon"?
The haftara opens "The vision of Yeshayahu" — its themes all concern the churban, leading up to Tisha B'Av.
2
Who are the three prophets who prophesied with the word Eikha?
Moshe "How can I bear it," Yeshayahu "How has she become a harlot," Yirmiyahu "How does she sit solitary."
3
What does "alone" mean according to the chiddush?
Aharon died on Rosh Chodesh Av (Massei). Without the lover of peace — "how can I make peace alone?"
4
According to Rashi, what are "your trouble, your burden and your strife"?
Litigious (never yielding in a case), skeptics (suspecting Moshe), grumblers (endless complaints).
5
What is the link between "Ayeka" and "Eikha"?
"Ayeka" to Adam = where is your light. Distancing from that light leads to the "Eikha" of churban; ahavat chinam restores it.

Result

📅 Seven-Day Programme — Devarim · Shabbat Chazon
Sunday
Read Devarim 1 — "How can I bear it alone." Notice the Shabbat Chazon context.
Monday
Study Rashi on the three complaints — trouble, burden, strife.
Tuesday
Midrash Eikha — three prophets and the parable of the matron (tranquility · folly · degradation).
Wednesday
Aharon the peacemaker — make one act of peace today, at home or with a friend.
Thursday
"Ayeka?" — where am I really? Reconnect to your true light and place.
Friday eve
Before Shabbat — one act of ahavat chinam, with no reason and no reward.
Shabbat
Shabbat Chazon — study the haftara "Vision of Yeshayahu" and ready your heart for Tisha B'Av.
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